Can You Be Loose If You're A Virgin?

I had a while back and i remember thinking the guy's felt kind of small in my . He didn't have a small it just felt kind of roomy i guess. It's strange because i was a virgin and it really hurt, and was difficult to get in but once it was in the friction wasn't that intense. Is this the norm or do i just have a naturally large , if that's possible? Thanks. Oh and i didn't stick anything inside beforehand if that's what you're wondering. Like vibrators etc. X